Gays

Nowadays, around Thailand they are a lot of gays and lesbians relationships. With them relationships are not easy to tell anyone and especially about gays/queen this why it’s not easy to know who is gay or not. Most of gay/queen they are hiding from people but they will only tell somebody who close relation for trusting.

For myself I used to have gay/queen and lesbian friends, and with this part I want to introduce Man who is my gay/queen friend.

I used to work at the same company with Man for 3 years ago. He was a nice guy and sincere person and after that we were the best friends. Worked with him was a lots of fun and he liked to teach me about work.One day he came to me with the confused question, which he said “How can I decide thing between loves woman and man?” that was a difficult answer for me to give an advice to somebody in that way with less of my experience. And I asked him back “What are you really want.” Then he told me “I love a man, and this means I am gay queen?”

Two months later, Man had told me about his sexual relationship with his new boyfriend. And he very loves it that way. Moreover he told me that his new boyfriend also has gay girlfriend but Man accepted to be his new girlfriend. So, I just gave him a small advice to him that be patient about the relationship and be careful to having sex with his boyfriend.

It has now come to the time for Man to ordain as a monk. Because this year he becoming a 20 years old. And Most of Thai men do this once they become of age. Anyway, his mother wanted him to ordain in a big temple in Bangkok and of course he accepted that for her. But to ordain in this temple he has to pass the body check up and also including the HIV test, after that bring a certificate to the temple.

Unfortunate for him while he was waiting for the blood test result the doctor came to him and talked with him softly that he got an HIV.

Later on at the morning he came to work with sadness and cried with me that he got an HIV and how he can survive. I was shocking and told him to calm down a little bit. I knew that it’s not easy for him to accept it. He more careful about food and drink, he changed to eat more about vegetables, fruits and milk. Seemed these things also help him to have a good health.

At the end he could not longer to work in this company because at the end of the year all of workers have to go to a hospital for body check up. Not longer he quitted a job and now I don’t know where he is.